A Stronger, Longer, More Intense Orgasm, Guaranteed?
Hell yes, yes, oh yes – just add water!
By Ann Ortho
Is there a way to guarantee a stronger, longer, more intense orgasm?
Hell yes, yes, oh yes – just add water and, for the best results, a fun, new waterproof vibrator friend!
Hands up! Have you ever wondered whether there’s a stronger, longer, more intense orgasm out there? One that you haven’t experienced yet? Can I tell you a secret? Yes. There is. And the best news of all? You can go there – by yourself. Sex therapist and relationship counselor, Mary Jo Rapini, has some very good advice.
Just add water!
Have a warm bath or shower, as it relaxes you,” she recommends, “Take your time, 10 to 15 minutes, 3 times a week, to begin with, you’ll be surprised at how quickly you catch on.”
So turn the lights down low, light a candle or two, put on your favorite sexy playlist and lock the door.
But what can you use to give you that intense experience? You’ve got three options:
Your hands: Find your clitoris and rub it gently but firmly in a circular motion. Experiment with varying degrees of pressure until you find what works for you. The trick is not to expect a result in a rush. Take your time. It takes longer to get a result, in the beginning, than you’d imagine.
The shower head: All joking aside, using what’s (ahem,) to hand in almost everyone’s bathroom, will give you, if you’re careful, an orgasm to remember. The trick is, of course, to ensure that the temperature of the water is not too hot. You can vary the pressure, again, to find out what works for you. Using the water over the rest of your body can also add a sensuous massage to your experience.
Use a vibrator: BUT … A waterproof vibrator. Only! On the TV show Mythbusters, the presenters experimented to see which appliances (hairdryer, hair curler, radio, toaster, etc.) would electrocute you if they fell into the bath. The answer: ALL of them! Don’t use anything in the bathtub that is plugged in. Get only waterproof vibrators. Otherwise, you’re risking serious injury or death. No orgasm is worth that! Try The Waterproof Naughty Micro Vibe from HoneyHoney, a great starter wand, to get you going. Made from waterproof medical grade silicone and ABS, at just R150.00, it’s excellently priced for experimentation.
Or use The Ben Wa Sex Ball. Pop these balls in, to enjoy the pleasurable feelings of friction and weight, then use your hands AND a shower head for an explosion which might, if you’re not careful, result in you flooding the bathroom.
The most important learnings? Take it easy, take it slow, don’t turn up the heat to turn up the heat and experiment! You’ll never feel the same about bath-time again.